Girl Power in network marketing

Hi There,

Stop sniffing around! You may think you smell a rat in here, but there's certainly no dead cat :-).

Today's observation is a bit risky. It's about Girl Power in network marketing. So lissenup!

Notice how politicians stuff their campaign offices with women? Or how religious organizations
(churches and the like) are run by women? Let me tell you something. The politician does the promising and the referent does the preaching. But it's the woman who does the networking, the fund raising and so on. Women keep the whole circus together.

Why is that, you may ask? That's because women have a natural ability to be loving and caring.
Besides that, they are also multi dimensional as compared to us men who can only handle one thing at a time. Women are responsible for creating a homy atmosphere in which anybody can feel safe and at ease.

What my point is? Just hold on a minute.

In network marketing it's no different at all. I've seen how influential and successful women can be in business networking due to those same unique characteristics. They run the show behind the scene, so to speak.

The first thing I do after joining a network, is to point my antenna in the direction of the Girl Power within the community. I don't have to look for them. They will find me. All I have to do is be receptive and open. I need their power and that is what I'm signaling. No indecent intentions of course. Just plain common sense.

I'm not talking about being passive. There comes a time that you will have to speak up clearly for yourself and show some (just a little bit!) of that natural manhood. Don't try to overpower her with that machismo atitude. A Woman is a sensitive, intelligent creature. Be gentle and respectful in your approach. Don't try to fool her, or she will cut right through you.

I must confess that contrary to what you might think, I'm not the coolest sweet talker. I need time (and courage) before I decide to reply to the insistant call of such a successful heavenly creature. What do I say to make me look interesting enough for her not to shut me up rightaway?

scary me: Hi Sheryl, ...thanks for visiting my (lousy) page and messaging me. Yes, (of course) I would like to (die to) interact with you....

Or do I say...

confident me: Hi Sheryl, how could I not notice that heavenly charisma of your's...I just followed my instincts and ended up right at your page. Let's get to it rightaway!

What ever you do, be genuine and respectful. Don't be ashamed to tell her that you're in a mess rightnow and that you're fighting back like crazy. She wil not pitty you. In stead she will admire you for your honesty and determination. And if you're lucky, she will unleash that Girl Power to work for you. Just you, man!

Having a couple of these GP powerhouses in your team will make you an all time winner!

Conclusion
Women play a binding role in all kinds of networking organizations because of their natural ability to care and preserve. They are fast learners and they can handle multi functional tasks in extremely complex situations. The same is true for network marketing. Successful women in business are just as common as in any other field requiring this unique set of capabilities.

Bflash
Over and out.